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A Thin Line Between Love And Hate

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A Thin Line Between Love And Hate

Postby ndhdl on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:18 am

Hey Guys lets get straight to business

There is a girl i know and she really really annoys the bejesus out of me yet i find my mind wondering towards her even though it twists my insides into severe annoyance when i do,

thoughts please
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Postby kidsthesedays on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:24 am

ask her out. the more time you spend with her the more it will work itself out.

if she says yes, then either you'll get over being annoyed by her and can be happy, or the annoyance will overpower all feelings you have and you'll stop thinking about her. most important thing is to get rid of the mystery though, by asking her out.

if she says no, then you just gotta try to move on.
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Postby Tushmeister on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:26 am

I say otherwise
If she annoys you it'll be wasted time

Chances are you are lonely right?
You're idealising her, probably because she's such an absurd choice you expected you'd never act on it, but now it's gotten to the point you might

Isay nay. But that's just me
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Postby ndhdl on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:28 am

theres a problem there im taken and very much in love with my girlfriend (cue cyanide and happinesses hero lolfag man) i think part of the annoyance is the guilt of my mental wonderings!
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Postby scarr3d on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:28 am

I've felt the same way about a girl before, thought I hated her but couldn't get my mind off her.
Turns out it wasn't hate I was feeling it was jealousy and lust.
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Postby ndhdl on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:31 am

i can relate, there is definately some lust there
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Postby Tushmeister on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:33 am

Ah if you're taken and this is the case, it's probably just wanting what you shouldn't want

Just be happy with your missus, no need to jeopardy things and surely it shouldn't take much to forget about her if you really love your girlfriend
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Postby kidsthesedays on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:35 am

Tushmeister wrote:Ah if you're taken and this is the case, it's probably just wanting what you shouldn't want

Just be happy with your missus, no need to jeopardy things and surely it shouldn't take much to forget about her if you really love your girlfriend


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i already gave away my karma for today or i would karma that. i shall in 12 hours though...retrokarma!
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Postby ndhdl on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:37 am

thanks guys, i know i should do that but theres always that thing in the back of my head saying what if

its good to get some outer perspective on things
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Postby scarr3d on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:40 am

kidsthesedays wrote:+1

i already gave away my karma for today or i would karma that. i shall in 12 hours though...retrokarma!

I could give it to him if you'd like? ;)

Back to the topic, maybe you need to figure out a way to deal with it, if that means paying more attention to your girl then do so. It's sure to make her happier regardless.
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Postby Tushmeister on Thu Oct 25, 2007 9:42 am

Yeah but what ifs are never as good as what already ares

Well, not when what you've already got is supposedly of the highest order, ie love.
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